Family aur community ka kya role hai?

Family itni zaroori kyun hai?

Family kisi bhi samaj ki sabse buniyadi aur purani ikai hai. Bachpan mein yahin hamari dekhbhaal hoti hai, aur yahin hum sabse pehle baantna, madad karna aur doosron ki parwaah karna seekhte hain. Chapter do bade sawal poochhta hai: family kyun zaroori hai, aur community kya hai aur kya karti hai? Chalo dono ko dekhte hain.

Joint aur nuclear family

Aaj India mein kai tarah ki families hain.

• Joint family mein kai peedhiyan saath rehti hain: daada-daadi, mummy-papa, chacha-chachi, bhai-behen aur cousins.
• Nuclear family mein pati-patni aur unke bachche hote hain, ya kabhi ek parent aur bachche.

Apne mohalle mein dekho: kaunsi family zyada dikhti hai, aur kyun? Dono ki apni khoobiyan hain. Joint family mein kaam, dekhbhaal aur kharch baantne ke liye zyada log hote hain, aur bachche daada-daadi ke saath bade hote hain. Nuclear family tab aasaan hoti hai jab mummy-papa naukri ke liye naye shehar jaate hain, aur isme zyada privacy hoti hai.

Roles aur zimmedariyan

Family ke rishte pyaar, dekhbhaal, sahyog yaani milkar kaam karna, aur paraspar nirbharta yaani ek doosre pe nirbhar rehna, pe tike hain. Har member ki apni bhoomika hai. Mummy-papa bachchon ko khush aur zimmedar naagrik banne ke liye paalte hain. Bade hote hue bachche ghar pe zyada kaam sambhaalte hain, jaise bhai-behen ki madad, aur family ki peedhiyon purani paramparaayein seekhte hain.

Values ka asli roop: do families

Apna kartavya nibhaana, yaani dharma, Bharatiya sanskriti ka zaroori siddhant hai, aur family ahimsa, daan (dena), seva aur tyaag jaise values ka school hai.

• Shalini, Kerala. Shalini apne mummy-papa, chhote bhai, daadi Acchamma, aur chacha, chachi aur cousin ke saath rehti hai. Onam se pehle uske chacha ki naukri chali gayi. Uske mummy-papa ne poori family ke liye naye kapde liye, isliye Shalini ko silk ki jagah saadi cotton ki dress mili. Use bura nahi laga: tyohaar pe sabke paas naye kapde the.
• Tenzing, Meghalaya. Jab Tenzing ki mummy handicraft cooperative mein vyast ho gayi, to uske papa ghar ki safai, sabziyon ke bagiche ki dekhbhaal aur khana banaane mein haath bataane lage. Uski daadi samajhdaari aur mazaak bhari kahaniyan sunaati hain, aur daada homework mein madad karte hain aur padosiyon ki bhi, jaise toofan mein toote ghar ki marammat ke liye paise ikattha karna. Mummy-papa khaas kharche milkar tay karte hain aur aage ke liye bachat karte hain.

Community kaise banti hai?

Families doosri families aur aas-paas ke logon se judi hoti hain. Jude hue logon ka aisa samooh community kehlata hai. Iske log tyohaar manaane, daawat aur shaadiyon ke liye milte hain, aur kuch gaon mein zameen taiyaar karne, buaai aur kataai ke liye bhi.

Kai communities, khaas kar adivasi aur gaon ki communities, ne bahut pehle tay kar liya tha ki paani, charaagaah aur jungle ki upaj kaise baantein. Unke niyam kam hi likhe jaate the, par inse har family ko bharosemand pahunch mili, aur har family ki zimmedariyan thi, taaki community theek se chal sake.

Madad karne wali communities

• Jhabua mein halma. Madhya Pradesh ki Bhil community ki parampara hai halma: musibat mein kisi ki bhi madad ke liye milkar aana. Saal-dar-saal paani ki kami jhelne ke baad unhone hazaaron ped lagaaye aur baarish ka paani bachaane ke liye khaaiyaan khodi, bina paise liye, apni community aur Dharti Maa ke prati kartavya maankar.
• Chennai baadh, 2015. Jab sadkein nadiyan ban gayi aur dukaanein band ho gayi, tab kai groups ne khana banakar zarooratmand logon ko baanta.
• Kamal Parmar, Ahmedabad. Ek workshop owner ne kaam ke baad har shaam sadak ke bachchon ko padhaana shuru kiya, aur unhe raat ka khana bhi diya. Jaldi hi 150 bachche aane lage, aur teachers aur bade students madad ke liye jud gaye.

Niyam aur paraspar nirbharta

Shehron mein nayi communities bani hain, jaise Residents’ Welfare Associations, jo kachre, saaf common jagahon aur paaltu jaanwaron ke niyam banati hain, aur residents isme hissa lete hain. Phir bhi koi community akeli nahi: housing society saamaan ke liye vyapaariyon aur kachre ke liye municipal workers pe nirbhar hai. ‘Community’ shabd lachila bhi hai. Iska matlab jaati, ek dharm, ilaake ya kaam ke log, ya tumhari class, sports team ya school club ho sakta hai. Har baar log ek doosre ka saath dene ki koshish karte hain.